Now to continue my story of a mirth-filled visit to Disneyland. If you missed my last post, I suggest you take a few (well several ;) minutes and catch up as I am going to plunge right in and some of the message will be lost if you are unfamiliar with what has led me up to this part of the tale.
Once we boisterously welcomed all who came to that happy place, we quickly skipped to our first arduous task of the day... eating a gigantic breakfast surrounded by larger-than-life silly, quirky, and joyous characters. Plaza Inn was our destination, their character breakfast was our task. I am sure that pretty much everyone has seen at least one classic picture of a friend, coworker, family member, random acquaintance where there is that obligatory pose with a Disney character, be it Mickey, Minnie, Princess, Grumpy, Winnie the Pooh... or Tigger too. However, if you have never been to a Disney theme park then you are probably not aware of the toil that usually accompanies this one quickly snapped picture, nor the imaginative and incredibly talented cast members (Disney’s name for employee) that are behind those masks or makeup. The "toil" are the lines one must maneuver to meet these characters as they can sky rocket and consume most of your precious time (especially at Disney World), BUT there is a reason for it. An amazingly beautiful and heartfelt talent is given to each guest these cast members meet. For youngsters this meeting can be undeniably precious as you can see their eyes light up and the wheels turn in their head and wonder, even for just a second, if the characters from their favorite fairy tales are actually real and if those stories can really come true. The characters never ever shatter the dream that their fairy tale story is true, and in so doing they can even make adults forget, even for a second, that their story is a fictional one. However cheesy that obligatory smiley picture may look, you can be almost certain that there was a lot of imagination and wonder that accompanied it on both sides of the seemingly simple greeting. The character breakfast we participated in had delicious food and unbelievably witty and playful characters, with no lines to meet them as they came to our table. It was absolutely memorable and every one of our kiddlets basked in freely letting their imagination roam and dance with the talent that lay behind those masks and makeup, a courageous and unique feat in the time they live in.
Once some rides were accomplished, we made our way through Toon Town to meet the mouse... Mouses... Mice. Our first stop was Minnie's house, then we planned to go to Mickey's. At the end of touring each house we would be able to meet the mouse-house-owners themselves. We arrived at the open door to Minnie's house and a cast member was there to let us know when we could proceed into the humble pink, white, and polka dotted abode. This cast member's name was Kaylee, and just typing her name creates happy tears in my eyes as I reflect on how her kind and genuine actions that day shaped my sister and nieces' view of their beautiful adoption story.
My courageous nieces have endured hardship, abandonment, neglect and countless other trials in the, roughly, 7 and 10 years of age they possess. Independence, self sufficiency, and self protection were skills immediately acquired in order to simply survive when they were abandoned at ages one and four. Their exact birth names, their biological family, their birthdates are unknown to this day. The majority of life for these precious girls have been anything but carefree and child-like. When my sister took them in as her foster children she knew the trials she faced in choosing to care for and later adopt these girls, because she was adopted herself. She knew the pain it could bring her, she knew the challenge it would present, she knew it would require sacrifice, she knew it would take abundant unconditional love, she knew it would take every ounce of energy she has. She knew all of this, looked these facts square in the face and bravely chose adoption, no matter the cost to herself. I cannot think of many other acts that show a truer representation of pure love and redemption here on earth. She has not only given them every physical need but also every ounce of encouragement and emotional care they could want. The exquisite result is that they are thriving and enjoying their childhood, a childhood that could have so easily been riddled with horror upon unimaginable horror. The unfortunate truth is that, due to the unconventional nature of this particular adoption, this budding little family has experienced prejudice and adversity where celebratory support should have reined. Carin and Yvette now have educational opportunity, they now have childlike freedom, they now have considerate care, they now have every physical need met, they now have aunties (or Tia as they call me ;), they now have cousins, they now have uncles, they now have a supportive community, they now have a boundlessly loving mother, they now have hope. This is to be celebrated.
Kaylee heard their adoption story, and Kaylee led a Disney-fied celebration. She told us to come see her after we met with Minnie, because she had a surprise for us. Once we met Minnie, Kaylee took Carin and Yvette by the hand and said, “How would you like to meet Mickey right now? I think he will want to hear your story and celebrate with you right away!” She led our entire group through the exit to Mickey’s house (which essentially means we went to the front of the line… and the line was about a half hour long), waited and chatted with us for a few mere minutes before all of a sudden, we were greeted by Mickey and several other cast members who had heard their story and wanted to congratulate Amie and the girls on the adoption. I am quite certain that every adult eye in that room had a moment of mistiness as they saw Carin and Yvette’s eyes completely light up with joy when they met Mickey, danced a celebration dance with him, and he gave them an enormous bear hug of delight. It didn’t end here, Kaylee then took us to see Pluto, who was also in ToonTown at the time, and then she said she had something even more special for us. Off she went and quickly came back with 9 pins, each stating, “I'm celebrating: Adoption”, then she took us over to Donald and Daisy, where after a bit of a wait, they escorted Carin and Yvette, hand in hand, through ToonTown, a celebratory parade of their adoption. I don’t know how to describe the impact of these simple gestures other than to say it was pure reverent magic. It communicated something profound to my sister and her girls- their story is both stunning and unique, it is one to be honored with blissful revelry.
At every turn of our visit that day cast members would notice the pins Kaylee put together for us and they would look at us in delight and genuinely express their congratulations to Amie, and to all of us who were celebrating this new family. Their smiles gave warmth to these girls who had seen too much coldness in their young lives. Their heartfelt congratulations gave my sister a deep sense of support and encouragement for what she had done. That day, and the next, truly felt like Disneyland’s whole purpose in being open was to celebrate adoption, and this was accomplished through diligently caring cast members. The fact is that there are many, many people who work for Disney that deeply value Walt’s vision for his parks- to be “a source of joy and inspiration to all the world.”* There are incredibly intricate behind the scenes systems in place just so that each guest visiting can feel special, be inspired, and joyfully celebrate. I don’t know what all had to happen for Kaylee to drop what she was doing and lead this celebratory romp, but from what I could gather through sly eavesdropping it certainly took some well-timed logistics from not only her but also several of her coworkers. These coworkers could have dismissed the inconvenience and disruption of this romp since it was an incredibly busy day at the park, but they didn’t, and Disney the company had a plan in place for such an occasion to be embraced, how awesome is that?
My hope is that this post encourages you to take a page from Kaylee’s book and consider how to creatively celebrate someone, be it family member, friend, or 5 minute acquaintance. The impact of this sweet and kind gesture just may heal wounds that others have inflicted, and bring heartfelt cheer to your world and theirs.
The recipe I will leave you with is a cake that I made for a jewelry and clothing party I hosted a few weeks ago, but the cake itself was inspired by my sister, Amie. While we are about as polar opposites as you can get, we both love traveling, eating incredible food, and community. I wanted the cake I made to reflect some of her favorite flavors with an added fun spin to them, and this is what I came up with. It’s a great recipe for fall and for sharing with friends and family, maybe even for a Thanksgiving or “Friendsgiving” event, which I can’t believe are already around the corner. Along with the picture of the cake, I have added some other pictures that capture the spirit, awe, and wonder these kids (and my sister, mom, and I) felt on our trip, I hope you enjoy the journey!
From left to right, top to bottom: Quickly snapped pic of the cake for the party I mentioned above, the recipe for which you will find below; me, my mom, and my daughter showing Minnie some love as we Disneybounded as her that morning; one of my prized possessions- LuLaRoe castle leggings! I wore them complete with a tiara and tutu, yay for being a kid again!; my beautiful sis, Amie; meeting Pluto in Toon Town in the middle of our celebratory romp with Kaylee; princess hugs!; sheer delight for every one of our party abounded during the Paint the Night Parade in Disneyland; Carin could not contain her gleeful excitement at seeing every one of her favorite stories come to life during the parade; happily in line bright and early to beat the crowds at California Adventure; woohoo for Cars Land!; more princess hugs!; yeah I think the picture speaks for itself :D; as does this one... which is my favorite ride of all time by the way ;); along with the paint the night parade, World of Color also drew out awe-filled wonder and joy as this nighttime show paid homage to the ideals of Disneyland, really and truly quite a thoughtful and spectacular show; our last night of the trip these cousins walked hand in hand, glowing from the bond they experienced during this trip, and the magic of celebrating the family that was brought together.
Ginger and Spice Carrot Cake:
Ingredients:
3 cups all-purpose flour
1 pound large carrots, shredded
3 large eggs, room temperature
1/3 cup buttermilk
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
2 cups sugar
1 1/4 cups vegetable oil
¼ cup coconut oil
1 tablespoon freshly grated ginger
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
¾ tsp nutmeg
½ tsp cardamom
2 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
Directions:
Preheat oven to 325ºF. Butter two 8-by-2-inch round cake pans. Dust pans with flour, and tap out any excess.
Place carrots, eggs, buttermilk, vanilla, sugar, vegetable oil, and ginger in a large bowl; whisk until well combined.
In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and cinnamon. Using a rubber spatula, fold the flour mixture into the carrot mixture until combined. Fold in the toasted pecans.
Divide batter between the two cake pans, and bake until a cake tester inserted into the middles comes out clean, about 1 hour. Remove pans from oven, and transfer to a wire rack to cool, 15 minutes. Turn cakes out onto rack; let stand until completely cool.
Orange scented Cream Cheese Frosting:
Ingredients:
2 pounds cream cheese, softened
2 sticks unsalted butter, softened
3 cups confectioners' sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons pure orange extract
Directions:
Beat cream cheese, butter, and 1 cup sugar with a mixer on medium speed until combined.
With machine running, add remaining 2 cups confectioners' sugar, 1/2 cup at a time, beating well after each addition.
Add orange extract, and beat until pale and fluffy, about 4 minutes more.
Assembly:
Note: If you are unfamiliar with leveling, cutting, or frosting cakes I would suggest checking out this tutorial before this next step.
Level each cake layer. To get the look shown below, place about 2 cups of buttercream in to a bowl and tint it (I prefer Americolor gel food coloring) to the darkest shade of color desired for the bottom ombre layer. Take about 1/2 a cup of this tinted frosting and combine with 1 1/2 cups white frosting. Once combined then take 1/2 a cup of this lighter frosting and combine with 1 cup white frosting, you will now have 3 shades of your desired color. Fit 3 piping bags, one with a 12mm french piping tip, another fitted with an 11mm french piping tip, and the last fitted with a 10mm french tip. Fill each fitted piping bag about 2/3 full with the tinted buttercream, each bag will have one shade of color. Place the first layer of cake on a disposable cake round or cake plate. Fill the first layer with enough white buttercream to form a 1/2" layer, making sure a small amount spills over the sides evenly. Place a layer of cake over the filling. Frost the cake with remaining white buttercream, this will not perfectly cover the cake, that is fine you simply want to achieve a crumb coat. Pipe rosettes (Same method as this tutorial that shows you how to cover an entire cake with rosettes, but I used different piping tips, feel free to use the same 1mm star tips from the video if you want that specific look) along the bottom border with the darkest shade of frosting, then pipe rosettes with the next lightest shade for the middle section of the cake, then pipe rosettes with the lightest shade on the top of the cake, and viola! you have a cute and trendy rosette ombre cake!
*This is a quote from Walt Disney's opening day speech at Disneyland, found on this site.